Best Toys and Penis Extenders for Men 2021

Best male sex toys

The male sex toy market is seriously lacking. Peruse any online store and you’ll find that the male department is noticeably scarce when compared to the female department, which almost doubles what’s accessible to men.

Add to this fact that not all men are into G-Spot stimulation (in case you weren’t aware, guys, your G-Spot — the prostate — is located in your butt) and you can reduce the selection of sex toys by almost half. According to research, though, guys are definitely coming around to the idea of butt stuff.

A research by LELO found that 71 percent of straight-identifying men in a relationship have tried (or admitted they’d like to try) experimenting with prostate massage.​

I have compiled a list of the best sex toys for men that will get the job done for both amateurs and intermediates.

1. Fleshlight Launch VR Sex Toy

Fleshlight launch

Fleshlight Launch is an interactive virtual reality sex toy that can either be used manually or interactively to get sexual pleasure.

Operating Modes

It comes with two modes, i.e., the manual and interactive operating modes.


In this mode, you can control the speed and length of the strokes by yourself. Since the device is in interactive mode by default, once you power it on you long-press the mode button till there is a blue LED light on its outer casing.

Apply enough lubrication to your manhood and the sleeve, slide your manhood in, and power it on. You can play around with the settings for different simulations.


This mode allows you to sync your toy with various internet content like virtual reality games, encoded videos and webcam.

The action you watch on a given porn video can be replicated on your manhood if the Launch and the video are synced. You can connect to VR content using Bluetooth, which means you need a third device to be playing the video content, whether it is a phone or laptop.

Pros of Fleshlight Launch

  • It greatly improves your masturbation experience
  • Sturdy and light
  • Comes with manual and interactive modes
  • Compatible with different Fleshlight models
  • Synced to many porn sites, like FeelMe and PornHub
  • Compatible with different VR goggles
  • Comes with a one-year warranty
  • Discreet shipping
  • You can customize the length and speed of the strokes

Cons of Fleshlight Launch

  • Feels robotic before one gets used to it
  • A bit pricier
  • It’s only the Launch that comes without a Fleshlight

2. Cobra Libre 2 Penis Head Vibrator

Cobra Libre 2 Penis Head Vibrator

Cobra Libre 2 is a powerful sensitive penis massager that is specifically designed for the head of your manhood.

Unlike the other toys that engulf the whole penis, this one just surrounds the penis’ tip. It has a soft velvety interior that is made of medical-grade silicon.

Features of Cobra Libre 2​


Cobra Libre 2 focuses mainly on stimulation on your frenulum and glans. It comes with two ultra-powerful yet quiet motors. The motors give deep vibrations to the sleeve.


You can use it in the tub because it is waterproof and it’s easy to use, thanks to the ‘Press Fun to Play’ innovative push button.

It is also easy to clean, and you can use running water and a little mild soap or toy cleaner to give it a fresh breath of life after a stimulating experience.


Its internal length is 3.5 inches while its canal diameter is 2 inches, making it a one-size-fits-all sex toy.

The package comes with a USB charger and an instruction manual. The eco-friendly rechargeable sex toy also comes without batteries. It is important to note that the device comes with the buttons locked and you need long press the ‘FUN to Play’ button for like 3 seconds to unlock them.

Pros of Cobra Libre 2

  • It is waterproof hence can be used in the tub or any other watery area.
  • Fully rechargeable thanks to the magnetic USB cable.
  • Doesn’t use batteries, eco-friendly.
  • Lasts for long after recharging.
  • Can fit all sizes
  • Comes with two powerful motors
  • Easy to clean
  • Made using safe materials
  • You can lock the buttons so that they aren’t accidentally pressed by other luggage in a bag


  • Since it accommodates only the tip, the lubricant and cum might splash back at you
  • Since it comes without batteries, you have to ensure it always is charged

3. Fuck Me Silly Masturbator

Fuck Me Silly Masturbator

This is male mega masturbator that is modelled like a woman’s booty.

This toy is made of Pipedream’s Fantaflesh skin which is not only sexy but also responds to spanking and slapping really well by some wiggle and jiggle motion.

Weighing around 15 pounds, this toy makes you feel like you are making love to a real woman due to unique design.

Features of Fuck Me Silly Masturbator

Three holes

The toy has two holes that replicate a woman’s vagina and asshole. These holes are almost similar in size and texture. The difference maybe the circumference of each of the holes. The two holes are connected to each other through a canal.

Above the toy, let’s call it the waist, there is a third hole. This is an air pressure hole. The essence of this hole is to let air in and out as you pound the toy, to avoid the toy from ballooning and eventually bursting.

Extras included

The package also comes with a lubricant, toy cleaner and a renewal powder. Renewal powder is used to give the toy a fresh new look at spots where it is likely to wear our color due to consistent pounding.


Cleaning this toy might be a bit hectic but whichever the case, do not allow water to pass through the pressure hole into the toy. Plus, after washing, you can smear the renewal powder on the points you feel might wear out and lose color.

Pros of Fuck Me Silly Masturbator

  • Takes the shape of a woman’s lower half
  • Weights only 15 pounds
  • Built with Fantaflesh material
  • Cheap
  • Has an air hole to let out air and avert any ballooning
  • Simple to use


  • It sometimes slides on the surface as you pound on it
  • The holes are not very tight
  • Difficult to clean
  • Not portable due to its size

4. Tenga Flip Zero Masturbation Device

TENGA Zero Flip Hole

This reusable massager is made using the finest materials and the latest technology, according to the manufacturer.

Features of Tenga Flip Zero

​Sleek Design

It is a tube-like sleeve structure which envelopes your manhood and with the different ridges and details, your penis gets lifelike blowjob. Unlike most of the sex toys, this one does not move by itself or vibrate, you will have to move it up and down.

As you enter it, there is a ridge wall and textured balls that have flaps on either sides of the toys which rise and envelop your manhood. These flaps make the ripple dome on the opposite sides. The midsection has a triple chain gate, which is a series of balls that will stimulate both sides of your manhood.

​Accommodates all penis sizes

At the far end is a layered end orb, a hole at the end of the Tenga that envelopes the head of your manhood. To reach this, your manhood will have to be about 6 inches long. Tenga Flip Zero accommodates penises that are 2 inches or below in width.

​ABS Material

The outside is made of ABS plastic with some parts made from Thermoplastic Elastomer. It has arms that you can slide to open, wash it and leave it to dry. This also allows you to see its internal structure.

Pros of Tenga Flip Zero

  • It is attractive and comes in a discreet design
  • Easy to hold and use
  • Satisfying stimulations
  • Has some amazing texture


  • Holds onto fluids and lubricants

5. Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit

Fleshlight STU review

This is a product that is aimed at helping men last longer in bed by providing stamina.

The Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit is designed in the model of a vagina. It is a synthetic vagina which looks real but has different stamina units. On buying it, you will notice that it is so flashy with a gold finish, is ultra-tight and very sensitive.

Features of Fl​eshlight Stamina Training Unit

​Requires regular use

You should use this toy about four times every week. The first session can last four minutes without cumming, the next session you last a minute longer and gradually you improve.

Increases stamina​

With the design to replicate those intense sexual sensations, this toy will intensify and heighten your orgasms, increase sexual stamina, and improve your performance.

​Accommodates all penis sizes

It has a total length of 9.75 inches with an insertable length of 8.5 inches. It has a patented SuperSkin sleeve and comes in an exclusive gold case.

How to Use Fleshlight STU

  • Warm it
  • Lubricate it
  • Make your manhood hard
  • Lubricate your manhood
  • Insert the manhood into the device
  • Control the suction by tightening or loosening the special end-cap

Pros of Fleshlight STU

  • It is flashy and discreet
  • Designed like a woman’s vagina so the training is with some realism
  • Helps increase stamina in bed
  • Can restore your bedroom confidence
  • Light and portable
  • Easy to use and clean


  • Must be warmed before it can be used

6. Fleshlight Destroya Masturbator

Fleshlight Girls Stoya Destroya

This is a sleeve that is designed using the model of porn star Stoya’s vagina. Stoya is an award-winning porn star who has been in the industry for over a decade. This toy comes as a complex, intense and a unique sex that every man needs.

Features of Fleshlight Destroya

​Three Chambers

The Stoya Destroya has three chambers inside. It starts as a narrow channel of about 0.4 inches that has small bumps. After this, the section next is a bit wider with longer bumps up to the center of the toy.

​Multi-directional stimulation

It has pleasure nubs which will offer a multi-directional stimulation. This starts at around an inch into the Stoya and goes on for the next 1.5 inches.

Beyond this point, the sleeve starts narrowing again and this forms a tight constriction before you make it into the main chamber.

​Maximum pleasure

There are 45-degree angled fangs that point towards the sleeves entrance. As your manhood slides through these fangs, they grip and pull at it with every thrust you make before you reach the next ring of bumps that will lead you into a section with small ridges that have an effect of small ridges, with the tunnel narrowing gently.

This destroya is tight and gives you so much pleasure. During cleaning, you should be thorough as the bumps and ridges provides spaces for fluid and lubricant residues. It also takes long to dry.

Regardless of the size of your manhood, you will love the Destroya.

Pros of Fleshlight Destroya

  • It quenches your thirst if you have been dying to know how Stoya (the actress) feels like
  • Offers a variety of textural sensations
  • The use of SuperSkin material makes it feel so real
  • It is very tight
  • Comes packaged discreetly

Cons of Fleshlight Destroya

  • A bit weighty
  • The material is a bit sticky

7. Liberator Wedge/Ramp Combo

Liberator Sex Position Wedge Ramp Combo

This is a slanted positioning pillow that provides you with basic lift to help in penetration during sex.

It is a black, high density foam that prevents your body from shrinking into the bed or couch during lovemaking. Besides, it offers you all angles and access so that you get satisfied while relaxed.

Features of Liberator 24-inch Wedge/Ramp Combo


Liberator wedge and ramp combo is vacuum compressed, and packaged in an eco-friendly manner. The wedge is 34 inches long and 12 inches high while the wedge is 14 inches long and 7 inches high. Both are 24 inches wide.

​Slanted positions for deeper penetration

Pillows of the combo are positioned in a slanting manner so that they allow limitless positions during sex. You can use them apart so that you have more variety. Apart from support, they create comfort by taking weight off your backs, necks and knees.

​Microfiber cover

The combo has a microfiber cover that is so soft to your skin and the foam inside is protected against moisture by a thin liner. The cover is removable and machine-washable.

This is Liberator’s best-selling pillow. Its design allows for prolonged oral sex where none of you will end up with a sore neck.


  • Gives you height options
  • Offers many position options
  • Micro fiber is removable and machine washable
  • Foam moisture-protected
  • Allows prolonged oral sex without any strain
  • Packaged in an eco-friendly manner
  • Vacuum-compressed


  • It is expensive
  • The ramp needs a lot of space for storage

8. Fleshlight Alien Male Masturbator

According to the manufacturer, this sex toy will help you go past where no manhood has gone before.

Features of Fleshlight Alien Masturbator


The alien male masturbator is pearlescent blue in color. It comes in a deep blue casing with a sleeve, which is pearlescent blue.


The fleshlight is about 10 inches long with the diameter being about 3.5 inches. The insertable length is 9.5 inches but most textures can accommodate penises of up to 7 inches.


The toy comes packaged nicely in a box whose back has tips on how to use the alien masturbator.

There are also a cross-sectional cut away images of the toy’s interior showing you how it looks like. In the box, you will also find a user manual and a water-based lubricant.

The largest end of the fleshlight has a diameter of 4 inches while the smaller end has a diameter of 2.5 inches. There is a plastic spacer tube that has been inserted inside the masturbator when you first open it from the box. You can pull it off and throw it away, since it has no use after delivery.

​Material & Texture

Just like other Fleshlight products, this one also is made of SuperSkin, which is phthalate-free, hence safe for your body.

Inside the alien fleshlight, the texture is so intense. There are grooves that spiral from the entrance to a lotus node which is a bit tight. From the lotus node onwards, the texture is comprised of stimulating bumps that are of the same texture in the Fleshlight stamina training unit.

Suction Control

There are two screws on the case’s caps. The cap on the base controls the alien’s suction when you pull out your penis while the second one covers the other used end of the alien. The latter is a bit larger but both are molded from the same blue plastic just like the case.

Pros of Fleshlight Alien Masturbator

  • It is discreet
  • Made using materials that are body safe
  • Can be awesome for fantasy play
  • Free lubrication included
  • Easy to clean
  • End-cap controls suction
  • Flexible, soft and durable


  • You need to be 6 inches plus, so as to enjoy

9. Kiiroo Onyx2 Male Masturbator

Also referred to as the blowjob machine, this is a handheld barrel-shaped interactive male sex toy whose design makes it fit your hand.

Despite its small size, it is very powerful. Kiiroo Onyx2 is a male masturbator that offers interactive sexual experiences when turned on.

It is a one-size-fits-all masturbator that will wrap around your manhood and give up to 140 strokes per minute.

Manufactured using silicone and a high-grade polymer, Kiiroo Onyx2 is enhances long-distance love making thanks to its virtual reality ability. However, on the first look it does not look like a sex toy at all, you will be forgiven to mistake it to a Bluetooth speaker.

Features of Kiiroo Onyx2 Masturbator

This toy’s main feature is the 10 rings which span its length. They are designed to contract and grip your manhood gently and this will create the required stimulation.

The sleeve is made of Fleshlight SuperSkin like most other Fleshlight products. Its internal length is 16.5 cm while the hole diameter is 4.5 x 4 cm.

You can charge it through a USB port or mains charger but the latter is faster, charging the Onyx fully for 3 hours.

Kiiroo Onyx2 comes with two operating modes;

Manual mode

All you do here is have the sleeve inside the device, lubricate it well and once your manhood is inside, you can start the toy. The device has a touch pad that you can use to control the thrusting speed. The rings will replicate your thrusting like it was of a real penetration.

Interactive mode

You can sync Kiiroo with other videos and you will be experiencing everything that is being done on the video. Interactive mode gives you the privilege of being a player in the video you are watching using a VR headset.

Pros of Kiiro Onyx2

  • Has an interactive mode and manual mode
  • It is smaller and lighter
  • Has a powerful motor
  • Discreetly packaged
  • It is quiet
  • You can use it alone or with a partner
  • Can be used for a whole hour when fully charged

Cons of Kiiro Onyx2

  • Takes time to charge
  • It is pricey